With Sympathy for Juls

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The details came in driplets, but eventually regular readers of Juls' Keeping Pace blog realized her husband was dying, unexpectedly and quite quickly. Instead of clamming up, she kept the posts coming and we all got a glimpse of what it's like to face one of our worst fears.

For the last two weeks, our track coach has reminded us to let the people fundamental to our lives know how much they mean to us. Last week it was our mother. He told us to call her when we got home and let her know how much she's appreciated. Now, such an out-of-the-blue call on a weeknight in my family usually is code for "I'm in deep trouble," so I let the opportunity pass for fear of setting off a panic attack. Then this past Tuesday, after returning from a funeral, Coach Paul reminded us how fleeting life can be and how important it is to seize opportunities while our loved ones still walk among us.

Thanks for being so brave and so open, Juls. Our hearts go out to you and your family during such a difficult time.

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