Thursday, June 24, 2010

I'm Making an Example of You, Kate

Yesterday's Worldess Wednesday was a setup for today's lecture post on basic runner safety, especially if you are a young woman who moved to San Diego from Chicago and was bumming rides a few days ago, one from a total stranger and one from me.

On Sunday morning, young Kate decided to drive some 15 miles from her home in Hillcrest to Los Penasquitos Canyon Preserve in Mira Mesa/Rancho Penasquitos for a 12-mile solo trail run. She took with her a car key, a water bottle and her iPod. At some point, she dropped her key but didn't hear it fall because she was listening to music. She couldn't call anyone for help because she'd locked her cell phone in the car. There is no public transportation in the area, and Kate wasn't carrying any money on her anyway, so she accepted a ride with a guy who said he also lived in Hillcrest. Don't worry, this story has a happy ending.

Kate made it home unharmed and proceeded to contact co-workers via Facebook and email to see if someone on Monday would take her to get a new key at a car dealership and then drive her back to her car, which might or might not have been towed by then. I volunteered to do it, especially since I live just a few blocks from where her parked car was deserted. Not only was she lucky it wasn't towed, but she's also grateful it wasn't stolen. On the windshield was a note from a Good Samaritan saying he'd found her key and left it on her front tire. This just confirms that aside from attacks on young female joggers, I live in a pretty safe part of San Diego.

(Those young joggers were Chelsea King and a more fortunate Colorado college student.)

When Kate returned to work the next morning, those thought bubbles in yesterday's post surrounded her computer monitor. She knows she was foolish, and now you know too.

  • Never run alone, and especially on trails, without carrying a cell phone. If you can't carry it in a keyhole or belt, consider sticking it in a small Ziploc bag and shoving it in your bra, then check periodically to make sure it's still there.


  • Think twice about running alone with music too. Kate stood a better chance of hearing her key hit the dirt or rocks if she'd been more aware of her surroundings instead of absorbed in a song. She'd also more quickly hear movement from animals or people approaching.


  • Be very careful accepting rides from strangers, especially ones who are alone themselves. Look for a family for assistance if you can. It's a sad commentary on our society, but you can't initially trust anyone, even those with good intentions.


  • Let someone know where you are going and when to expect you back. Kate lives with Angela, and I think Angela was at work when this happened (Kate will set me straight in the comments if that isn't the case). I'm sure Kate could have bummed a phone from someone like the guy from Hillcrest and called her. Then again, it wouldn't have done much good. There was no spare key, and did I mention the car (technically) belongs to Angela?
  • 13 comments:

    Lily on the Road said...

    Sorry you had to learn the hard way Kate, but at least you are alive today because people care and made sure you ended up home safely. We've had young women disappear and are later found dead when they venture off on their own, you can never be too careful.

    Thanks for sharing this Anne, it is a powerful reminder that one can never be too complacent about your own well being when out running or even cycling for that matter.

    Glenn Jones said...

    *THIS* is the #1 fear tht most people should have about trails running. Why can't people just carry a small belt for her keys and phone? Not cool to run with a belt? Too bad! It beats that alternative!

    I *really* bothers me that people *won't* think about thier own safety first....

    Kovas Palubinskas said...

    Even if you don't want to run with a belt, make sure your keys are either in a zippered pocket or stash them near the car, under a rock or something. This could have turned out very differently and I'm glad for Kate that it didn't.

    Irene said...

    Is it OK for me to share this post (link)?

    I know people don't like to carry anything when they run, but I find it necessary to carry a cell phone if nothing else.

    Asha said...

    I have a question for/about Kate: Had she heard about Chelsea King prior to leaving on this little adventure? I'd like to know if at any point a warning went off in her mind that said something like, "I should probably take my phone," or "Is a ipod a good idea?" I just don't understand how people can be so trusting...I have a friend who doesn't think about "stranger danger" the way I do, and I find it confusing.

    Deene said...

    running trails requires extra precautions especially the trails with less traffic. even if it's not involving a crime, there could be an injury with no one around to assist.

    Southbaygirl said...

    I am a single woman and I run.I run on trails, I run on roads but I run with a dog.Not that that makes a difference but it has been proven that a dog is a deterrent. Now...let me just say, if I didnt have my trusty running companion, Velcro, I would be running by myself!I ran before I got her. And will run when she has passed (of course, I plan on always having a cattle dog but that's for another post!) The unfortunate reality with me and I'm sure alot of people is that no one around where I live runs. They also dont have the same work schedule I have. If I lived in a small town and not LA that might be different. Actually, that's false, I lived in Nashville and I ran by myself as well.

    Now I'm not saying what Kate did was ok-far from it! But sometimes there is just no one to run with-IF that is the case different precautions should be taken.

    1) I run in running skirts that have pockets! I ALWAYS carry my phone-ALWAYS. of course most of the time it's to take pictures-but lets face the fact you NEVER know when something might happen. And not just on the trails! I took a face plant the other day running on roads and scuffed both knees-if I had really hurt myself, I had my phone on me and could have called someone if it was necessary!

    2) I also ALWAYS run with an amphipod running bottle that has a zippered pouch. Of course, I take this bottle on all runs because I run with a dog that wears FUR but it does have a zippered pouch! It's lightweight (I run with the 12 oz size) and has just become part of my running gear! I put my key in the pouch when I drive to a trail or a running area.http://www.amphipod.com/385/385.html

    3) ALWAYS pay attention. I have been running since I was in junior high. I have also been out running in Nashville, TN when I was in high school and I was followed by a man in a car. I notice EVERYONE that drives past-and I noticed that this guy had driven past me 3 times.

    4) if you dont want to run with a handheld bottle with a zippered pouch, belt, skirt with pockets-collect all those safety pins that you get from races and double safety pin your key to your shirt or shorts or whatever.

    If you are a woman and dont like any of these ideas get one of these:
    5) Gracie's gear jogging bra http://www.graciesgearandtraining.com/html/products-shorttop.php
    Look a POCKET!!!

    I have had my fair share of being spooked while running! It sucks and I wish I didnt have to worry about it. Is that one of the reasons I got a dog? Hell to the Yes. Is that one of the reasons I didnt get a lap dog but a 50 lb Australian Cattle Dog that would fight to the death for me? Hell to the Yes!

    I have learned to adapt to my surroundings, my life and my schedule and still run! I usually call my mom every day and she knows when i go running! I tweet that I'm going running and tweet while I'm out running. SOMEONE always knows I'm out. Does it suck that we, as primarily woman, have to think about all of these things before and while we are running? YES! But I do it because I LOVE to run and I will not have anyone take that away from me!

    have I though about running with mace-yes, I actually did for awhile before I had my dog!

    I'm sorry if I ranted. As you can tell, I do feel very strongly about this! It is something I have lived and run with for years-and I wish that all the young girls out there never had to think about these things! But there are people out there that can not be trusted by society!

    I am done. Please be safe! Take any precautions that you can! Some people think I'm silly carrying all the shit I carry-water bottles, things in my pockets, pouches on my ankle....well, sometimes we do things so that we may continue to do the things we love!

    Kate said...

    Hi, I'm Kate, the trusting little girl that ran alone without a cellphone and took a ride from a stranger. Did I mention he was really nice and drove a hybrid, which means he must be compassionate --right?

    Wow - this blog post sure generated a lot of feedback. I know it was irresponsible to not run with a cellphone but, in my defense, it was a busy Sunday afternoon with a lot of traffic. Maybe I am naive (okay, I know I am naive) but I have faith in mankind and I hope that someone would help me if, god forbid, I injure myself along the way.

    Also, I should turn the volume down on my iPod so I can hear things around me. Unfortunately, it's easy to get wrapped up in the podcasts I am listening to.

    Thanks for the lecture (I mean post)and comments everyone. Thank you Anne also, for bailing me out. :)

    Angela said...

    here is the challenge....live everyday in fear that something awful could happen or live life to the fullest!? I have been running since I was 12...far before cellphones....or cool running gear. I would tie my key to my shoe and run for miles enjoying the freedom and adventure it brought. If I have a cell phone in my pocket will that really leave me anymore safe? Although I wished kate didn't go running out there alone she did pick a heavy traffic time. Luckily there are wonderful people out there that help when we have accidents like Kate have. Lets face it...a key could fall out of a fuelbelt too!! Keep running Kate...but ditch the ipod!! The sound of your feet on trails is more soothing anyway! Great post Anne :)

    iJuls said...

    Lots of comments and I have to admit that, although I have good intentions, I always seem to forget something (ie my epipen, roadID). Keep running, Kate. Thanks Anne!

    onelittletrigirl said...

    I think this is a great post- but I also agree that we can't all live in fear. We do the best we can. There are good people and bad people. I am thankful Kate found a good one.

    Sunshine said...

    You don't have to "live in fear" to be a smart survivor.
    Taking chances may seem exciting, but it is better not to be foolish.

    Great post, Anne.

    Amy said...

    Definitely some good running safety tips! I've posted a few similiar ones on my blog. Check it out and let me know what you think! Looking forward to revisiting your blog!